I understand your sentiment dano and I completely get it. It's hard to sit by and watch stuff unfold. Especially whenever we can see with our own eyes that people are not being taken care of by our own government and are suffering. As dave has mentioned , emergency management scenes like those are often pure chaos of coordination. between private and public aid agencies, utility services, road crews, tree crews, private and public search and rescue, that and everybody is completely on guard. There is also Is a great deal of shady people. It's natural human instinct when things happen like this that people turn to survival mode. Things start to get stolen, looted, people begin to get robbed, rapes, and murders. All the addicts are now dope sick. Then theres a whole host of other people looking to take advantage and make money off the storm. Everyone is watching everyone with an eye of skepticism, especially of they're not local. Among all that chaos there is also a great number of heartwarming stories of neighbors helping neighbors and aid deliveries. I'm just trying to say it's a mess and you're likely to get in more trouble than you think trying to give direct aid, or just end up dropping everything off at a collection point.
I would encourage you to look further for those that are forgotten. There are still hundreds of thousands in very rural counties in georgia that are on day 9 without power. This also means that they are likely without water, clean clothes, food, and fuel. These people are often forgotten in storms because they aren't the focus of attention. Ask someone today about Katrina and they will likely think of new orleans, however the mississippi gulf coast took the brunt of the storm and was devastated. Not to minimize the suffering of those in louisiana but mississippi was all but forgotten.
Take a look at this map and find a hard hit county. Call a church and talk to them about the situation and what they may need.
PowerOutage.us tracks, records, and aggregates power outages across the United States.
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Another option is let the dust settle a little, people will still need help long after fema and every well intended aid agency pulls up tent stakes and leaves town. Recovery takes years and years. There will still be a need but nobody there to help in a few months. It's then tou can likely be most impactful to an individual.