Hedge- I did read it. I also looked at the stats on the follow up. Backs up the points I have used for everyone who has suggested I go the 45 route.
1. I hope I am NEVER in this situation.
2. Verifies- Psychological stop of actually defending yourself is generally enough stopping power whether carrying a 22 or 45.
3. IF I were ever in this situation, it is simply a darn shame I can't carry a 12g around.
4. IF ever in this situation, 9mm or 45 have negligible differences.
5. Jackalope is probably right. I have bad luck at times. Thus the reason I am looking at new guns for a change.
6. Sometimes I simply get bored with my carry piece and I am ready to change. Sometimes when it is time for a change, I am willing to open my eyes and try to be open minded. I still like a certain size of pistol to carry though. This doesn't change. Full size 9/40/45 just doesn't carry well for me. You are correct. Uncomfortable carry piece left at home is useless.
For the input and opinions of all, I appreciate it fellas. I anticipated the received responses and don't think there is necessarily a wrong answer. Healthy to debate a little and make ones self think. I ended up ordering the xds45. In most scenarios I could find myself in, I feel it will be a good choice. In other scenarios (late night plowing snow or repairing a parking lot sweeper truck) a second piece in my vehicle or on my person is not a bad idea. Doesn't happen often, so not really a big deal in regards to comfort in carrying. Although I plan to carry the xds45 daily, I think I may still continue to shop for a Glock 26. Thoughts of xds45 and xds9 sound good on paper, but I don't want any confusion between calibers/magazines if I am in a situation where autopilot takes over. I don't think 2 guns which look very similar but have 2 different calibers is a good idea. Just me though.
Thank you all again!