When I’m behind the wheel, I’m in control. I have a hard time when it’s someone else behind the wheel until I get comfortable with them.... I’m not comfortable with most people....A buddy of mine, whom I’ll never get into a boat with again, took me on the Delaware river for a bass tournament...60mph over 2-3 foot waves...not only did it scare the fuck out of me, it was very painful. My back hurt for weeks afterwards. Life vests are a must, but when you’re with someone with no regard for life, you’re better off declining future fishing invites.