I’m old school. My opinion on the matter... he either plays or he doesn’t. Showing up just to pitch and picking which practices you attend is not being part of the team. Maybe things are different these days. I don’t know. I understand needing to work and save money. So if it were me, or my son, I’d tell him you better just decide which one is more important. Working or playing ball. I don’t care how talented or gifted a kid is... if he or she can’t be there to support their teammates, they wouldn’t be on my team. I think if Mason isn’t fully committed then the right thing to do (for the good of the team) is to pass. It’s Legion ball, not the Major Leagues... cohesiveness still matters.
Again, just my opinion. Not trying to ruffle any feathers. I simply can’t fathom the idea of a kid only showing up when it’s their turn to play, regardless of the circumstances. But also, again, maybe that’s normal these days for all I know.
No feathers ruffled. In most instances, I’d agree 100%. In this case, I don’t necessarily disagree with anything you’ve said, but I do see it for what it is. Mason is an outsider on that team. The coach recruits kids aggressively from other districts as I’ve mentioned earlier. He recruits pitching. There has never been a team in any tournament that has ever had too much quality pitching. He did not recruit Mason as a PO. However, last season when he moved up to the senior team, all he did was pitch. He literally sat on his butt every inning of every game even though he is a more than competent fielder. He did all the required fund raising. He attended all the practices (which are held an hour’s drive from our home), and he paid the full price to pay, rather I paid it, which was 400. He was never told he would only be pitching. We drove all over the freaking state for weekday evening games in which he never saw an inning of play. There is no way I’d encourage him to do that again. As an example of him doing the right thing, even against my wishes and suggestions... In the district tournament we were two games ahead of post 757. They had to beat Waverly twice to win. In the first game, Mason took the mound 757 was by far the best hitting team in the league. Their program is such that their senior team is made up entirely of 18 and 19 year old kids. Several having collegiate experience even though Covid shut them down early last year. Anyway, these kids were really good, but after the first inning they could not get a baseball out of the infield and Mason even had half a dozen or more K’s going into the 7th inning. The coach decided to sit Mason as he was headed out for the 7th with a 3-0 lead. He sent in a kid that throws near 90, but was struggling for the previous several weeks. Needless to say, we lost. Mason gets more competitive, more intense, just better the closer to the end of a game and this fool sat him down only to throw a kid who at that time could not find the strike zone. He sat countless innings, being a good teammate, doing the right thing only to have the rug jerked out when it counted. Needless to say that forced them into game two the next night. Mason, in spite of me suggesting he stay home, made the drive and sat the bench being a good teammate and watch them lose the championship game... again.
So, in this case, if he can free himself from sitting 100 miles from home all weekend, watching half a dozen games from the bench while waiting for his one time to play, I’m ok with it. Keep in mind, his issue is not with his teammates, the coach is an issue. The guy is not wanting Mason because he’s a good teammate (which he always has been), he wants him because he’s a workhorse that will benefit the team. His buddies on the team have been bugging him since last year to play, and even suggested he do exactly what he seems to be planning to do. Personally, I’d rather see him play with the Hillsboro post and be done with the Jackhole in Waverly.