swantucky
The Crew
Seriously guys we all know what we want to do, but is it worth it?? I have a neighbor who really tried to get over on me when I first moved into this place 12+ years ago. He had run of the property before I moved in. I was nice the first season and became a bigger prick as time went on. I shot down his stands after the first year I told him to remove them. I cleared a path between my property and his so I would know if he was fugging around on my side. I threatened to kick his ass.
A weird thing happened when I was telling the story to a hunting buddy at work on a jobsite. The guys went back to work and a customer of many years who also was VERY tight with my Dad pulled me outside to "talk about my situation". This guy for years was rumored to be "connected". This is what the man told me:
"If this man is causing you problems that you are willing to be killed over it or go to jail for it then please tell me who he is. I want a name, picture, and address. At some point in the future he will go away. If you are serious get me the information. Otherwise back the fuck off. I lost my oldest son because he would not give up $275 to some ($@$$ER) that held him up. He bled to death in the street and I will not let your Father lose his son to some bullshit."
That really made me think. Am I really willing to go to jail over "being right"?? Lord knows back in the day I would try and beat someone's face off for giving me a "hard" look. Is it really worth not seeing your kids for even 30 days in the slammer?? Is it worth losing your job over?? Is it worth having someone killed over??
I get the anger of someone trying to take advantage of you. I guess just as I get older think about how it could change your life. A serious assult charge will cost major $$$ in lawyer fees and time off work. How much is it worth to you??
A weird thing happened when I was telling the story to a hunting buddy at work on a jobsite. The guys went back to work and a customer of many years who also was VERY tight with my Dad pulled me outside to "talk about my situation". This guy for years was rumored to be "connected". This is what the man told me:
"If this man is causing you problems that you are willing to be killed over it or go to jail for it then please tell me who he is. I want a name, picture, and address. At some point in the future he will go away. If you are serious get me the information. Otherwise back the fuck off. I lost my oldest son because he would not give up $275 to some ($@$$ER) that held him up. He bled to death in the street and I will not let your Father lose his son to some bullshit."
That really made me think. Am I really willing to go to jail over "being right"?? Lord knows back in the day I would try and beat someone's face off for giving me a "hard" look. Is it really worth not seeing your kids for even 30 days in the slammer?? Is it worth losing your job over?? Is it worth having someone killed over??
I get the anger of someone trying to take advantage of you. I guess just as I get older think about how it could change your life. A serious assult charge will cost major $$$ in lawyer fees and time off work. How much is it worth to you??