Don't they have insurance agents to help find what fits your needs? Kinda like shopping for home owners, some sort of broker that handles 5-6 different companies.
Here's another idea...you don't seem to happy with your job anymore and have a kid at home now. Why not find a job that has good medical coverage and some stability? Sure it might be less on the check, but when you look at the alternative here...
Riverdude. I know you're looking for another employer so I thought I would offer some advice. Look at the total compensation package before talking salary. If their insurance cost is $600 a month and you think $300 is reasonable add 3,600 to your base salary requirement, if they only offer 2 weeks vacation ask if unpaid time off is allowed and add a week or two salary to your base salary requirement. If their 401k match sucks adjust your salary accordingly. Many companies out there today are cutting benefits or passing them on to the employee. For example say health insurance costs 1,000 a month, the employer paid 800 and the employee 200. But to save themselves money they changed it to 500/500.
Total compensation package my friend.
I work for a health insurance company. As a general rule of thumb, you pay for it in the front end (premiums) or the backend (deductible, copays and coinsurance). One will likely be low/reasonable and the other a bit higher. If they are both high, you're getting jobbed. If they're both low, you are winning at life!