The worst that a parent can go through. Truly sorry to hear of this. I have a couple close friends that have experienced what you and the family are going through. My sincere condolences.
There are help groups of families of the same experience and it helps….some. No one can imagine the hurt that yall are going through unless this has happened to them. My heart hurts for you and the family. Pm me if you want, as I will ask my friends the groups or any help they received. I will gladly pass it on.