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Need advice.. New job offer

huntn2

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Is it something you can sacrifice the family time for 2 years and then be on a better shift? I'd so and you can get that in writing, that is different. A few years now when kids are in tee ball, etc. I believe it would be real tough to miss out on that because of the 3-11.

I switched jobs last year for that very reason. I took a slight pay cut to improve my family life. Lots of time on stand allowed me to contemplate what I was chasing. I knew what I once wanted but with a young family myself, my priorities have changed.
 

bowhunter1023

Owner/Operator
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Not comical at all. I am always amazed at how clear things become when they are written in front of me, brain juices seem to increase.
The process wasn't comical, the comparison of the two jobs was what was funny. Just reinforced it was a no brainer!
 

lung buster

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hocking county
I've worked swing shift with one weekend off a month for the last 13 yr. I usually miss all holidays/b days etc. I use all my vacation to coach and go to my kids events. I've missed so much and I'm sick of it! Like all have said, money isn't everything and I'm willing to go backwards, (pretty much have to, due to being so invested in current job) to have a normal life before my kids are grown up! Im currently looking for a better situation myself daily! Best of luck in your decision!
 

finelyshedded

You know what!!!
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SW Ohio
Only you know what an extra $800-1000/month means for your family. Based on that info - I would serioulsy look into the offer.

Plus getting 18 days of vacation along with better benefits!!! I know what I'd do! Good luck in your decision!
 

Jackalope

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I don't need much to live on, I just need more time to live!

That's a very profound statement Brock. For years I've chased a dollar through corporate America. I've worked for 4 companies in the past 10 years. Each one in a higher position of pay and responsibility. In the IT world your skills are constantly changing by emerging technologies. If you stay up to date and learn those technologies you become more marketable. For instance if you work at ABC company and they buy a new widget that's an emerging technology, if you go all out and learn it you've just upped your marketability. Raises at a company never keep up with marketability. Usually they're between 2-5%. But learning that new technology just increased your market worth to another company by 15-20%. Because they may buy that technology too and not possess the staffing with the drive to learn it.

The problem is technology runs 24x7x365 not just 9-5. When it breaks you're getting a call, you're on the phone on a conference call, you're on your laptop trying to get it back online. Basically you're always in call. Last week I didn't get home before 9:30 a single day except Friday. It has it's perks. 100 dollar a plate steak dinners, comped trips to vegas, etc. but all of these things take time from my family. The money is good, but nothing pays enough to sacrifice your family.

With Jessica and I about to get married, thinking about kids, and the rest of out lives I need to start planning an exit strategy from corporate America. The system is rigged to where we're never supposed to retire. In the 50's a man could work and the wife didn't have to, they could raise a family, have a house in a nice neighborhood, white picket fence and see the USA in their Chevrolet. That's not the case today, both men and women work, they make ends meet, and spend a fortune on daycare. With our national debt the way it is the government need everyone working for as long as they're alive to keep those taxes rolling in. Retirement, for today's youth is a lie. We're slaves to our economy.

I need an exit strategy. Something that allows me to work and make my own money, and how much I make depends on my effort. I'm tired of working to make someone else rich. I don't need to be rich, but I also don't need to work my ass off to make someone else rich. I've just got to find something I like doing and start a business of doing it. Im tired of the fickle bitch that is technology. I often use the analogy of an arborist. They go to school and learn their career. When they start being an arborist they know what a pin oak is, 30 years from now it's still a damn pin oak. With IT, the crap I new just 2 years ago is today worthless and not in use anymore. I'm no stranger to hard work and adaptability to stay on top. But I want to work to live not live to work.
 

Strother23

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Very well said. I believe that I'm going to stay at my current job. I've been stressing over the decision long enough. I just cant see myself working that shift even tho it has higher pay and more vaca. That shift will suck. I just can't give up my evenings and weekends with my family. Thanks again for all the input everyone.
 

"J"

Git Off My Lawn
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Take it from a guy who missed more then the average father being at work (deployed for months on end) when you reach my age and your kids are grown and on their own you'd wish for those days back some days..... Enjoy your kids while your young and can be there with them....
 

hickslawns

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Jackalope is someone I would offer different advice than someone with children already. In his case I say "Bank bank bank. When the kids enter the equation, change the plan. If you can live like you are making 50% what you are making now, then live like you are making 50% and bank the rest. When you step backwards, it will be nice."