You are among the most respected opinions on this topic for me, but I'll disagree (with a slight adjustment) to your timeline while agreeing that one or the other of us lives in a bubble
I have two anecdotes to go on for this observation: My house and the farm. My first hunt at the house was Christmas Day 1999. You could throw a rock out the back door and hit a deer in those days, and it seemed like I saw a good buck on most hunts and the ruts were INTENSE. In those days, there were only 2 bowhunters on the 300ish acres that influences the hunting back there. Me and one other guy, and neither of us baited. Today, there are 8 adult males, 4 of us with kids that hunt, and all 8 of us are running bait. Coincidentally, where we once had multiple older age class bucks, with the big boys being B&C contenders, we had exactly one mature buck between us this year. We have 1,000% "high-graded" our local herd. Oh, and the observed rut is nonexistent these days.
On the farm, you know the saga of Duece in '07-08, a deer that will never be replicated without some HUGE changes inside the 640. From 2008-2015, my target buck was 5+ and 160+. This year, he's maybe 4, most likely 3, and maybe 140. Again, the quantity and quality have been diminished in recent years, and what changed? Leasing by NRs and bait. For sure, the good old days are behind me and my bubble has burst.