The fear of the unknown is always strong, but when it is your child, that fear becomes multiplied 100 fold.
Almost 30 years ago, I was terrified of what might lay ahead for my son. One of my old Sunday school teachers and I were discussing my fears and doubts and pain and heartbreak, when he said to me, “You know, God gives these to the ones that will love them the most.”
I've never forgotten that and as the years went by, I've come to cherish those words more and more.
30 years later and I am always thanking God for giving me the privilege of being the one He picked to raise such a wonderful, precious child.
You and your wife and your child will be fine because God picked you.