Rant/vent
As some of you might remember my mom fought off cancer a little over a year ago. What people don't know is the amount of family drama that came with it. Basically my dads side of the family ignored that anything had even happened. This hurt my mom A LOT! To the point that they came to my house for the weekend during the family reunion.
Anyways...my aunt is also fighting cancer now and that side of the family is taking donations to help them along. WTF! Another aunt is who text me tonight for a donation...I fucking lost my shit and went full freak the fuck out mode! These people couldn't even drop a phone call to check on my mom, now they want support back?! [emoji35]
I'm gonna donate because that's who I am and I know how I felt when no one helped my folks besides my wife and I. But it didn't go unnoticed and I made my point very clear.
Sharing this because it's weighing in hard on my mind right now... I let my wife read the messages and she thinks I did the right thing. It's just...it's family...[emoji53] It's been hard for me to keep my mouth shut since it happened. I spent 10 days taking care of my mom after surgery and it was really hard to watch her mentally get worse every day waiting by the phone that never rang... she'd cry about it every day and talk about how she didn't feel like family to them. I couldn't take it any longer when that text came through today. Only text I'd ever gotten from my aunt also... Now my mind is all over the place. Oh well I guess, I meant what I said and I hope the word gets around and my mom gets some apologies.
I hate drama and I feel like I just made a bunch. Gonna loose some sleep over this...