I'll share some personal stuff and I'm not looking for any kind of response really, it's more like a rant, which I appreciate having the opportunity to do that to get it off my chest,,, thanks!
I've been staying in close contact with both my sons since this outbreak along with other family members as well throughout the country.
My youngest is at OU and the other in Brooklyn, NY.
The one in OU will be coming home this coming weekend and the other in NY, my eldest, I asked him to book a flight out for either Friday night or Saturday morning to head home.
Well, the oldest was fairly reluctant in wanting to come home even though he's in the epic center of this pandemic at the moment in the country.
He has the ability to work remotely from anyplace with internet capability, which we do obviously and he's fortunate to be able to do that.
He's more concerned about leaving his circle of friends than understanding the real threat towards his own life. He told me that people are still gathering in large groups (more than 10) out there and left me with the impression that many aren't heeding to the official warnings still.
He's been staying in place with his roommate as best as he can for more than a week, only going out for groceries.
So, my challenge was to convince him to come home for his own safety.
It's of my opinion that young people truly do live in a social bubble and many cannot conceive/understand nor comprehend anything else beyond their own social circle/network of friends. He's been that way ever since he was a young teenager.
He's still going to book his flight out because I told him it's like having an insurance policy just in case things get much worse out there, but it was like pulling teeth to get him to do just that.
Yes, he's a young man, totally responsible in making his own decisions, however, when I was his age, I was always in the 'constant preparedness of war', which is something he has no clue of what that's like, which in my opinion, that's exactly what he's facing today.
He totally amazed me no matter how delicately or bluntly I tried to put to him.
Kids,,, God love'em & keep'em safe!