I'm sure I have some. Ironic @5Cent said the team sports shaped him. It was the opposite for me. Being poor to middle class in an affluent school district, you better have mega skills if Daddy didn't have money. It pushed me to wrestling in junior high, track all thru school, and cross country my junior and senior years. It taught me if you want it, you better earn it. Nobody to blame for your loss but the man in the mirror. It isn't a bad thing. It simply is what it is. Obviously I have team work ability and the military showed it. Funny how I am now self employed, and racing has been my go to whether motorcycles or now the trucks.