Buried my lifelong best friend today. I was honored being one of the pallbearers.
We celebrated his 43 year old life on this beautiful day.
He was single and raising his 10 year old daughter with help from his 75 year old parents.
The mother is not so good in and out of relationships, evictions, employment, etc. Gave up custody most recently to the father whom is now deceased.
Probably be a power struggle in the works in between bad mother and 75 year old parents.
How'd I'd love to become a Captain Phil Hicks and take the forever commitment.
Good, yet unreasonable intentions.
I'll take that as a compliment. It is not an easy feat to bring in someone child as your own. If it is meant to be and you are meant to do it. . . It will happen. Should you cross that bridge, you have my number. Feel free to bounce me for any related questions. Sorry for the loss of your friend. Nothing fun about this. Sounds like they picked a good man for one of the pallbearers.
Not truly "dump worthy" as it is just part of my job, but here goes: Finished remodeling a kitchen, bathroom, and painting a rental house last week. Got it rented. Good to see it rented again, but man was that some work and a big chunk of money. I'm over it. Until today. . . when I started the middle unit of our triplex. Sickening how a unit with fresh paint and all new carpet 2.5 years ago needs it all again. Today the painting began. Tomorrow myself and another guy should be darn close to finishing the painting. Then onto ripping out carpet, replacing most of it with laminate and hoping to be done by the weekend. Like I said, it isn't truly "dump worthy" but better worded: it is disheartening to see happen over and over. Just disgusts me how people truly don't care. Maybe they do care and just don't realize how destructive they are? Either way, it gets old.
So I do it, move on, and will do so again. $3000 in materials in 3 weeks sucks butt. Not a complaint. I bring these headaches on as I buy more. Just saying, with the good comes the bad. It is not "easy money." If you know anyone who has rentals, they are earning their keep. In our retirement, I will be very thankful for the sacrifices I am making today. Thus the reason I say this isn't truly "Dump worthy" but just frustrating.