I gave him 10 minutes Wayne. I told him 10 minutes is sufficient time to pull himself together and start his homework. 8 minutes later my wife walked into the office and said in a whisper "He's doing it. Still whimpering but he is working on it." I can hear her talking to him and helping him get started now. Sometimes he truly does need some assistance to get started. With all the problems he has, it is easy for him to lose focus and become overwhelmed. I still believe part of the issue is the hand holding at his school though. "What? You didn't punch your teacher in the mouth today? I am so proud! Here is an extra cookie!" Pussification of America. Forget who said it, but I will repeat it.