Thank all of you for the thoughts and prayers, it has been a long night at Bethesda hospital, she has an inoperable brain bleed and after speaking with the neurosurgeon my wife and her siblings had to make the very difficult decision whether to remove her from the ventilator, they decided to remove her since it is unrecoverable and there is no reason to continue her suffering, they removed her from the ventilator last night and now it has turned into a waiting game, I know this doesnt sound good but I hope she passes soon and does not have a long time of suffering, she is breathing on her own but it is very labored and shallow.