Joe and I were talking about the shoot next month and said a lot of you guys have to ask for permission before you can confirm whether or not you can go. Seriously?? Where are your balls? You should just say, "There is a shoot next month. You are more than welcome to come. If you have other plans, I understand you can't make it. If we need a babysitter, I will arrange it." Trust me guys, even if she gets mad, she wil respect you for not being intimidated. If you don't break the cycle of asking for permission now, you're going to be 75 asking if it's okay if you go play bingo. Be men, go shoot your damn bows, go home and be super sweet and it will all be okay.